Today in Canada's Political History: March 11, 2016, Brian Mulroney eulogizes former U.S. First Lady Nancy Reagan

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Canada’s past Prime Minister, Brian Mulroney, was in California on this date in 2016 to eulogize past American First Lady Nancy Reagan. He did so by delivering one of the eulogies, at the request of her family, at her funeral. You can read his remarks below.

The Rt. Hon. Brian Mulroney: We all know of Ron’s great love and admiration for Nancy and the elegant and constant manner in which he publicly expressed it. One day at the White House, after another glowing – absolutely glowing  – tribute by President Reagan to his beloved Nancy, I said privately, “You know, Ron, you’re going to get me and all the rest of us here in a whole lot of trouble with our wives because we can’t keep up with you.” And the president chuckled and looked at me with that Irish twinkle in his eye and said, “Well, Brian, that’s your problem, not mine.”

To illustrate this absolutely unique partnership and relationship, let me share with you today a letter he wrote to Nancy on their first Christmas together in the White House, on December 25, 1981:


“Dear Mrs. R., there are several much beloved women in my life and on Christmas I should be giving them gold and precious stones and perfume and furs and lace. I know that even the best of these would fall short of expressing how much these several women mean to me and how empty my life would be without them. There is, of course, my first lady. She brings so much grace and charm to whatever she does that even stuffy, formal functions sparkle and turn into fun times. Everything is done with class. All I have to do is wash up and show up.

There’s another woman in my life who does things I don’t always get to see, but I hear about them and sometimes see photos of her doing them. She takes an abandoned child in her arms on a hospital visit. The look on her face only the Madonna could match. The look on the child’s face is one of adoration. And I know, because I adore her too. She bends over a wheelchair or bed to touch an elderly invalid with tenderness and compassion, just as she fills my entire life with warmth and love.

There’s another gal I love who is a nest builder. If she were stuck for three days in a hotel room, she’d manage to make it home sweet home. She moves things around, looks at it, straightens this, straightens that, and you wonder why it wasn’t like that in the first place.

I’m also crazy about the girl who goes to the ranch with me. If we’re tidying up the woods, she’s a pee-wee powerhouse at pushing over dead trees. She’s a wonderful person to sit by the fire with, or to ride with, or just to be with when the sun goes down and the stars come out. If ever she stopped going to the ranch, I’d stop too, because I’d see her in every beauty spot there is and I couldn’t stand that.

Then there is a sentimental lady I love whose eyes fill up so easily. On the other hand, she loves to laugh and her laugh is like tinkling bells. I hear those bells. And I feel good all over. Even if I tell a joke she’s heard many, many times before.

Fortunately, all these women in my life are you. Fortunately for me that is, for there could be no life for me without you. Browning asked, how do I love thee, let me count the ways. For me, there is no way to count. I love the whole gang of you. Mommy, first lady, the sentimental you, the fun you and the pee-wee powerhouse you. Merry Christmas you all. With all my love, lucky me.”

Theirs was a love story for the ages. As first couple, Ron and Nancy Reagan represented America with great distinction. They had a magnificent sense of occasion. They had style. And they had grace. And they had class.

Some of you may have heard my reference to lines from William Butler Yeats when talking in other circumstances of what the Reagans meant to us all. Today, those same golden words tumble across continents and down the vista of the years as we think of Nancy reunited finally with her beloved Ronnie.




Arthur Milnes is an accomplished public historian and award-winning journalist. He was research assistant on The Rt. Hon. Brian Mulroney’s best-selling Memoirs and also served as a speechwriter to then-Prime Minister Stephen Harper and as a Fellow of the Queen’s Centre for the Study of Democracy under the leadership of Tom Axworthy. A resident of Kingston, Ontario, Milnes serves as the in-house historian at the 175 year-old Frontenac Club Hotel.